AL.Fatiha.Almarhum Tuan Hj.Jalius Hj.Pakeh (22hb.Jauari 1933 -23th.September 2011)Jam 2.30 pagi.

Al.Fatiha.
Kami sekeluarga mengucapkan jutaan terima kasih yang tidak terhingga kepada pihak-pihak serta kaum keluarga yang tanpa mengenal jerih dan letih menguruskan dengan baik jenazah almarhum ayahanda tercinta kami Almarhum Hj.Jalius Hj.Pakeh yang telah pergi menghadap pemiliknya pada tanggal Jummat 25 Shawal 1411 Hijrah bersamaan dengan 23th.September 2011.

Kami sekeluarga merakamkan setinggi tinggi perhargaan kepada pihak-pihak yang terlibat :


1.Semua Jururawat dan Jururawat pelatih tanpa penat lelah menguruskan dengan baik sehingga almarhum mengembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir yang bertugas diTingkat 3 Wad 4 (Lelaki)Hospital Besar Melaka dibawah kendalian Dr-Dr.yang terlatih.Terima Kasih yang tidak terhingga kepada Dr.Farah Malinda Kamal Fatimi yang bertugas dimalam almarhum mengembus nafasnya yang terakhir dan disamping nya sehingga akhir dan juga semua staf nurse yang berada disisi almarhum disaat -saat akhir almarhum menghembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir dengan tenang.


2.Pakar-Pakar Wad Trauma Hospital Besar Melaka yang memberikan pandangan yang bernas dan pengendalian kecemasan dengan teratur dan proffessional pada hari almarhum dikejarkan kehospital bagi rawatan rapi.


3.Ahli-ahli Jemaah Kariah Mesjid Bandar Hilir Melaka diketuai olah Tuan Iman Hj Shuib serta Bilal serta Tuan Hj.Yusof (Noja) bukan hanya merupakan Imam bagi kariah Bandar Hilil tetapi juga merupkan teman rapat dengan almarhum ayahanda sejak kecil yang tanpa henti bermula drp.pengendalian.memandikan jenazah sehingga mengimani sholat jenazah sehingga pengurusan jenazah keliang lahat.


4.Ahli-ahli Jemaah Kariah Mesjid Bukit Cina Melaka dipimpin oleh Tuan Iman Hj.Ishak Hj.Marzuki serta Dato Sidang Tuan Hj.Kasmuri diatas pengurusan pengembumian ditanah Perkuburan Islam Bukit Cina.Melaka.


5.Sanak saudara,terutama keluarga diJarkata yang memberikan perhatian keperhatian tidak terhingga sewaktu almarhum masih hidup sehingga disaat pemergiannya.


6.Ahli-ahli keluarga diMelaka yang tidak putus-putus memberi sokongan moral keatas almarhum sewaktu hidup sehingga disaat saat akhir hidupnya.


7.Penghargaan yang tidak terhingga kepada Yg.Bhg.Dato Dr.Hj Baba Dani diatas rawatan lawatan kerumah (House Call) secara sukarela serta nasihat-nasihatnya.

8.Yg.Bhg.Dato Hj.Mohd.Yassin Sharif selaku teman sekerja almahum serta rakan akrab yang telah mengetuai jemaah membacakan tahlil sebelum jenazah dimandikan.

9.Yg.Bhg.Tuan Pengarah Jabatan Kesihatan Melaka Tuan Dr.Ghazali Othman sebagai Pemerhati semasa almarhum mendapatkan rawatan diGH Melaka.

10.Jemaah Kariah Surau Sri Petaling,Jln.Perlak,Bandar Baru Sri Petaling,Kuala Lumpur dengan jayanya telah membacakan Surah Yassin dimalam Jummat tersebut disaat-sat malam terakhir almarhum .

11.Jemaah Nashbandi Haqqani dibawah pimpinan Sheikh Raja Ashman Shah Sultan Azlan Shah,Tuanku Sultan Perak kerana telah sudi membacakan dan mendoakan kemudahan perjalanan terakhir almarhum dimalam Jumaat tersebut di Al Zawiyah,28,Jln.Setaibudi,Bukit Damansara Kuala Lumpur.

12.Para-para hadirin diMesjid Kariah Bandar Hilir yang telah sudi menyempurnakan sholatan Jenazah selepas sholat Jumaat.

13.Rakan Taulan Putra/Putri Malacca High School diatas keperihatian serta ucapan yang menenangkan keadaan.

14.Staff CIMB Cawangan Jln.Hang Tuah.Melaka yang sudi meluangkan masa dihari pengebumian.

15.Rakan taulan almarhum yang tanpa kenal jerih letih menemani almarhum disepanjang perkenalan almarhum sewaktu hidup sehingga keakhir hayat.

16.Rakan-Rakan sepejuangan Almarhum yang bertugas di Pejabat RISDA Negeri Melaka sejak tahun 1953 sehingga almarhum bersara ditahun 1993.

Serta semua sanak saudara, panjang list jika mahu disebutkan disini.
Terima Kasih yang tidak terhingga diatas pertolongan serta bantuan kalian salurankan diwaktu mengendalian jenezah almarhum.
Saya sebagai Ketua keluarga almarhum Hj.Jalius Hj.Pakeh mengucapkan jutaan terima kasih diatas kesudian Dato/Datin Tuan/Puan dapat meyuahkan masa menghadiri atau dari jauh telah mendekahkan Ayatul Fatiha kepada almarhum.
Budi kalian hanya allah sahaja yang dapat membalasnya.

Saya sudahi,kiranya almarhum sewaktu hayatnya terkasar bahasa atau telah melakukan sebarang kekilafan keatas mana-mana individu ,saya memohon agar Dato/Datin,Tuan/Puan memaafkannya.
Sekiranaya ada sebarang hutang piutang dan ingin menuntutnya Dato/Datiin,Tuan/Puan olehlah menuntut kepada saya selaku waris dan anak yang tertua dalam keluarga dan akan melunaskan nya insyallah.

Almarhum meninggalkan seorang balu,Puan Ramlah Abdullah @Janet,serta 4 orang anak 3 drp.nya perempuan dan 5 org.cucu.
Sewaktu hidupnya amat berusaha dan penyanyang orangnya terhadap keluarga dan amat amat aktif dalam bidang sukan sejak drp.zaman bujang nya sehingga keakhir hayat.

Saya sudahi dengan wabillah hi taufiq wasalamualaikum warahmatulullah hiwabarakahtu.

Ayah Ku Kawin Lagi - Ayah Ku Pegi Aji.

It was over 40 years ago ayah decided to remarry again ending his single father status.Remember well the happy go lucky single father bringing up 3 tots children single handedly with a mere Risda clerk pay base on Suffian Report pay scheme.
Its something between $180 a month,I think.

Me,being the eldest to two other sisters was groom with no branded jeans except tailored made long pants by the perfect work of Hj.Manaf of 'AZAM TAILOR' and white shirts from Bee Loon ready made and the shops still at it presence humble beginning site at Lorong Bukit Cina but has expanded over the years all over the country mega mall.
Hj.Manaf has been my tailor since my wee lad days.
My first tailored suit for my England trip was hand made by 'Hj.Manaf The Tailor'.
Attire ethique was strictly observed by ayah.
Hair cream and body talcum powder a must.Off Raya morning with smartly polish Bata shoes goes along well with Hj.Manaf tailored trouses and the white shirt being reused again as my school shirt after Raya.

Suddenly,after joyeous yearly routine on Raya's with ayah,the daily bath personally by him in the morning before off to school,the morning dressing up,the dinner together with my single father stops abruptly and out off a sudden.
Ayah no longer at home with us.
We have to mend life to school all by ourself.
I was too young to understand why ayah left us suddenly.
However,ayah is always there sending us off to school in the morning and evening he will drop by after his daily dose of tennis game at the Bukit Baru Tennis Club but he no longer at home, reading the newspaper while we finishes our school home work.
His personnel home tution given to me on my weak subject also stop.

I was totally lost.
Seeing ayah morning and evening but he is not at home while we were asleep as he used to at night kept a 10 year lad puzzle,keeping together a 7 and 5 years sister together is another sodding tale.
Remember well,the day I confront him asking him why is he no longer with us at home.It was not a riddle but a straight question from a 10 year old lad

'......ayah,....ayah kahwin lagi ya!!!!!!!!!!

He was stunn by the question.
He didnt answer the question.
I presumed the answer was 'Yes',suddenly the pearl drops without invitation.

The rest was history.


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May 2009 - 7 am

My usual wake up call at 6.30 am.
Normal morning routine procedure like any other morning.Nothing unusual.
Suddenly a call came in at 7am.It was ayah's voice.

I must say,very-very-very-very very rare and unusual for ayah to call his 3 children.Not only to me but both my sisters as well.
Not at 7 am.From my past experience,call that early only an emergency informing death of imediate members of the family.

I remembered his no normal greeting over the phone.
Not a commanding voice and ayah has never been a commanding father.
His advise to children will always begin with a field trip for Rojak and Satay Wak Temu with big glasses of Air Temu to go with ,right up front facing the famous 'A Famosa'.

After eating,straight into the car.
We will be in his old white VW bettle for his prep talk,park some where along,the Famosa or the front sea-side ,me glaring at the open sea of Strait of Malacca,somewhere over there is Sumatra.

My performance,my behavouir,my grade etc.etc.The normal fatherly advise.
Never ever my beloved father cane or shouted at me or shunn or humilate me in public despite me a mischievious lad myself.

Never Ever.

The phone call from ayah that morning stun me.Straight to the point informing me.

'.....'Will.....aku nak pegi Aji tahun ni.'

I was stun !!! the request coming from ayah.
I wanted to sujud sadah right away.

My simple answer was'.....ayah jangan kuatir...biar Mie uruskan.
Right away I was at Tabung Haji HQ,Ampang as the first customer of the day enquiring for my ayah haj trip.Deposited the required amount and total amount which we pool together to see ayah's trip to Haj.this year.

Waiting patiently over the month,the reply from TH management for his application status.Mind you,ayah does not even have a Tabung Haji account and we have to open one for him.Knowing fully well,ayah clerk pay package are all spend on his schooling age children,even though we do not live under one roof together.
All his children needs are well look after and care for.


Monday 28th Sept.2009 bersamaan 7 Shyawal.

Tabung Haji reply :
En.Jalius penerbangan Haji Tuan ialah pada 1 hb.Nov.2009.
Sila laporkan diri di Komplex Tabung Haji Kerana Jaya pada pukul 9 pagi.

I did the sujud saadah after reading the confirmation letter.

Terima Kasih Ya.Allah.